Monthly Archives: December 2011

Happy Holidays!

We’re running off to our homeland (Florida! Sun! Mickey!) for the holidays, so I’ll be out of commission likely until the new year. For my last public bloggin’ act of 2011, I want to share a bad scan of our very first holiday card as an official fambly. We spent an entire day with a […]

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Jesus, You’re Getting Another Tattoo?

See that picture down there? That’s Mr. Adam Hays and an outline he traced off my back. You can see the midline, my asymmetrical explodingdog tattoos, my butt crack, and what looks like a chunk bitten off the right side, where my arm would be. That last bit actually represents the overlap of my sleeve […]

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Getting Gay Married: The Name Issue

KK and I thought about marriage for quite awhile before we got engaged and one of the first questions that popped up for us was: what should we do about the name issue? Since there isn’t a wealth of documentation on gay marriage and family building from a gay perspective and we are trailblazers of […]

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Live Through This: Suicide Prevention Through Photography

I finally started shooting for Live Through This (LTT) yesterday. This has been a long time coming. I feel incredible, and incredibly inspired. If you’re not familiar with LTT, it’s a project about life on the other side of a suicide attempt. Suicide is a terrifying epidemic. Instead of talking about it, we make broad […]

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One Last Shot: Tori Amos

I caught the ass end of the Meet & Greet before Tori’s first New York show at the Beacon Theatre, and had just enough time to say hello and make a song request. I know at least one of you is wondering what the request was, so I’ll tell you: Flying Dutchman. Didn’t happen. I […]

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