Live Through This: So Far

Over the last several weeks, I’ve put a lot of effort and focus into Live Through This, a project about suicide attempt survivors (which I wrote about here). I’ve been posting one image a week, along with excerpts of their corresponding stories.

The goal of the project is to bring awareness to the public. This is a human issue, not a gay issue or an adolescent issue or a Native American issue or a military issue, and it needs attention. One big problem with suicide is that people are afraid to talk about it. Often, when someone fears a friend or loved one is suicidal, they either think it’s a plea for attention or they’re afraid that asking the person if they’re suicidal will plant the idea in that person’s mind. Neither of these things is true. All suicide crises should be taken seriously. Everyone, without exception, should have the courage to ask and listen without judgment. A lot of lives would get saved that way.

There are a lot of developments going down behind the scenes. I’m working with some old friends from academia to marry the art of this project with some real, hard science. I’m starting to plan travel for the people who have contacted me about participating all over the country. There’s even a Live Through This tattoo out in the world already! Take a look at the first four faces of LTT below, and maybe shoot on over to the website and read their stories.

  • If you would like to help fund the project, click here.
  • If you would like to participate in Live Through This, please contact me.
  • If you think you know someone who might be interested, please pass along the link to this entry or to the LTT website.
  • If you’re sympathetic to the cause, please tweet about it, or post a link on Facebook or G+, and ask your friends to re-post it. The more eyes that see this, the better.
  • If you want to follow LTT on Twitter, you can do that here.
  • If you want to buy a LTT logo t-shirt, you can do that here. We have 1 small, 2 large, and 1 XL left in this batch.

A Few Quick Updates

Hi! I’m slacking on the blog right now, but it’s alright because I’m kicking ass elsewhere. Here’s how:

1. I did my sixth shoot for Live Through This yesterday. I’ve also [finally] posted the first two portraits and their associated stories on the website. Please, please go check it out. This project is my main priority right now. I’ve got shoots scheduled through the beginning of February.

2. I have an appointment with Vinny to finish up my Queen of Hearts tattoo this evening. I’ll be sure to post a photo at some point.

3. Even though I acquired another cold (the second in a month), I let Adam hammer away at my back on Tuesday. Of course you want to see how things are looking. Would I let you down?

My back tattoo after the second session

Have a good weekend,

Happy New Year, and Progress on the Back Piece

Hello! Happy New Year!

I’m not really huge on the new beginnings chatter, but I made some resolutions that I’m hoping are realistic for my personal, business, and artistic… life? Lives? I know for a fact that figuring out how to STOP BITING MY NAILS will be the hardest. Totally harder than fully supporting myself on my art, right? Wish me luck.

Moving on to the actual topic of this post: the full back tattoo in progress. When last we spoke of it, my back didn’t actually look like a messy, unfinished sketch. Now it does! Woo! I actually showed up much earlier than expected for my appointment with Adam and got to spend some time watching him sketch and re-sketch to his heart’s content.

Below is a series of images that break our session down into bite-sized pieces:
1. The man, the myth, the unabiding love for Texas
2. Discarded sketches
3. A rough sketch of our lady with proper positioning (and titties!)
4. R.I.P. explodingdog tattoos
5. My back after Adam had at it with a Sharpie or two
6. And after he had at it with needle and ink

I’m due for another session on Tuesday. Can’t wait to don the backwards hoodie and let the twins fly free again. I’ll keep you posted.

 

My mom is most definitely pissed,

Happy Holidays!

We’re running off to our homeland (Florida! Sun! Mickey!) for the holidays, so I’ll be out of commission likely until the new year. For my last public bloggin’ act of 2011, I want to share a bad scan of our very first holiday card as an official fambly.

We spent an entire day with a mini studio set up in our equally mini-sized apartment and just played around. We had a great time, and I think it comes through. This has been one of the best years of my life, and I can’t wait to see what next year brings.

Happy holidays.

So gay it hurts,

Jesus, You’re Getting Another Tattoo?

See that picture down there? That’s Mr. Adam Hays and an outline he traced off my back. You can see the midline, my asymmetrical explodingdog tattoos, my butt crack, and what looks like a chunk bitten off the right side, where my arm would be. That last bit actually represents the overlap of my sleeve tattoo into my shoulder area. You can also see that I have a damn big back.

Adam Hays traces my back for a custom piece at Red Rocket Tattoo in New York City

I guess what you’re wondering is, well, why Adam traced my big back. The answer is that he’ll be starting work on a full back piece (on me, duh) tomorrow afternoon. It will be a custom Day of the Dead tattoo, partially inspired by Sylvia Ji‘s amazing work (which Adam turned me on to) and referential to both some major losses in my life as well as my passion for photography. That’s all I’m sharing for now. We’ll also be covering up those explodingdog tattoos, I’m sad to say. As much as I love them, they’re a pretty good example of bad placement, a faux pas on the part of the artist and the [then ignorant] consumer.

People are always asking me about my tattoos, so I figured I’d just write about them here more often. In this particular instance, if I’m diligent enough, you’ll get to see the process of a custom tattoo from conception to execution. I’ll share the conception part later, when the content of the piece is no longer shrouded in mystery.

All of that said, you’ll probably see a lot more here about tattoos for another reason: I was recently awarded the awesome job of social media management for Red Rocket Tattoo‘s Manhattan shop. I’ve always wanted to spend more time watching the magic being made, and this will give me ample opportunity to do so. I’ll be there a couple times a month clicking away with my camera, so be sure to “like” their Facebook page and follow them on Twitter/Instagram (@redrockettattoo) to see what transpires.

 

My mom’s gonna be pissed,